I ain't got too much to offer to this cept for...3 things:
1--As everyone else has said...go for it. You'll never know what you can do until you just leap in. *nudge* Remember our conversation when I was so undecisive about what to do? Keep that in mind...it's certainly helped me.
2--You and Slay have reached something of an impasse(is that even the right word?) in your complete relationship. It's possible to love someone and not be in love with them, and right now all that is happening is that you both are hurting one another I suspect. So..I think the healthiest thing for both of you is to part. And in doing so you're going to be able to keep that friendship that probably drew you to each other in the first place.
3--You and Lia, eh?
Andy, if it's keeping you content and her content...then that's that. From impressions gathered through the few Ims and other conversations I've had with both you and Lia it certainly does feel right. You two probably know each other better than myself and some of my real life friends do. Ultimately we're your friends and we care about you being happy and well, however that may be.
And don't go hide! We'd all miss you and then we'd have to ferret you out and THEN you'd probably be really angry with us. *winks*
*hugs* We're all here for you if you need to talk, absolutely positively promise.
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Date: 2006-04-18 04:14 am (UTC)1--As everyone else has said...go for it. You'll never know what you can do until you just leap in. *nudge* Remember our conversation when I was so undecisive about what to do? Keep that in mind...it's certainly helped me.
2--You and Slay have reached something of an impasse(is that even the right word?) in your complete relationship. It's possible to love someone and not be in love with them, and right now all that is happening is that you both are hurting one another I suspect. So..I think the healthiest thing for both of you is to part. And in doing so you're going to be able to keep that friendship that probably drew you to each other in the first place.
3--You and Lia, eh?
Andy, if it's keeping you content and her content...then that's that. From impressions gathered through the few Ims and other conversations I've had with both you and Lia it certainly does feel right. You two probably know each other better than myself and some of my real life friends do. Ultimately we're your friends and we care about you being happy and well, however that may be.
And don't go hide! We'd all miss you and then we'd have to ferret you out and THEN you'd probably be really angry with us. *winks*
*hugs* We're all here for you if you need to talk, absolutely positively promise.