Oh jeez. I of course have no idea what's going on in your head, but from the outside...can you say match made in heaven omg? I hardly call Lia the "first sympathetic body that offers"--I mean, how freaking long have you two known each other now? How many hours have been spent hanging out, if only virtually? How much do you absolutely adore each other?!?
So that settles it. Throw over the husband (sorry Slay, but it's really what's best for you, too), move both your butts to Asheville, and see where it takes you.
In other words: what would Yoz do? Okay. So do it.
(Again, this is based on what I see from the outside only. I have no access to what's in your head. And lastly: if you perceive any sort of pressure from my words, think of it as a pressure toward doing something that makes you happy, not a pressure to be happy with Lia. If that's truly not what's going to make you happy, then of course I wouldn't expect you to do it.)
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Date: 2006-04-17 01:00 pm (UTC)So that settles it. Throw over the husband (sorry Slay, but it's really what's best for you, too)
, move both your butts to Asheville, and see where it takes you.In other words: what would Yoz do? Okay. So do it.
(Again, this is based on what I see from the outside only. I have no access to what's in your head. And lastly: if you perceive any sort of pressure from my words, think of it as a pressure toward doing something that makes you happy, not a pressure to be happy with Lia. If that's truly not what's going to make you happy, then of course I wouldn't expect you to do it.)